New Reality

Imagine a world where your words and thoughts create exactly what you want, an existence where you have a thought and it manifests into your reality. Would you like a new reality? How would it feel to have the relationship with your perfect partner? Would you like to finally have the career you always felt worthy of? What about not having self-doubt anymore, does that sound enticing? What if you finally dealt with the anger you always wished would go away? Is it jealousy that rears its ugly green head and disrupts everything? What if all those things that annoyed you were no longer an issue in your life?

My fellow souls we already live in such a world! Most of us are oblivious to our major thought patterns and our tendency to go to the negative. We are mostly oblivious because we automatically assume somebody else is at fault when things do not go our way. This fairy tale world where your words and thoughts create your reality, well it isn’t a fairy tale at all! It is in fact our reality. We live and breathe it every day! You and you alone are responsible for your life, and all the emotional reactions you experience belong solely to you!!!

Every thought we have, whether we are aware of it or not, has a ripple effect in our lives. What I have found most helpful is to look at the different areas of your life, like family, relationships, career, social life, hobbies, passions, etc. Begin a dialog with yourself about the issues you have in these areas. Do you recognize a common thread? What do you complain about most often? Do you see a pattern throughout? Once you begin to reveal the patterns you will be able to determine where the negative threads show up. It’s important to look at the positive aspects of your life as well. Do you have a career you love, a family, a spouse, or a passion that allows your soul to breathe? Let those areas set the standard for the areas you wish to change! I bet when you take a look you will find a stark difference in your thought patterns pertaining to those positive and negative areas.

It’s easy to blame everyone else for problems when they arise, but nothing will ever grow and flourish under those circumstances. There is nothing nurturing about blame, to you or the individual your blaming. I challenge you to truly become a unique and soulful being who looks at your own patterns and shortcomings. What can you do to make the situation better? Complaining never solves anything! We have created our reality and we alone are responsible and powerful enough to change the parts we no longer feel good about! So let us begin by taking a breath and embracing our New Reality!

Nothing comes from outside of us. We are at the center of everything that happens in our lives. Everything is inside – every experience and every relationship is the mirror of a mental pattern we have inside us. – Louise Hay